Evaluation of: Struggle, Experience, and Confidence

Evaluation of: Struggle,  Experience, and Confidence

We experience a multitude of obstacles, victories, and life events that mold us into the people we are and want to be. Three important components are at the center of this evolution: confidence, experience, and struggle. Each of these elements affects our ability to grow personally by strengthening our boldness, understanding, and ability to accomplish our objectives.

The struggle appears in our target scenery not as an enemy to be horrible but as a force for evolution. Experience teaches us priceless lessons, reveals secrets, and helps us become masters of our fate, equipped with the knowledge to sail over life's stormy waves. Additionally, in the middle of the turmoil of battle and the revealing of experience, confidence shines like a radiance of light. It's the constant rhythm that beats within us, the steadfast belief that we can overcome any obstacle if it comes our way.

Sharing some articles:

Shiflett (May 12, 2021) shared her opinion on “THE STRUGGLE WITH CONFIDENCE”. She added A modest or low sense of one's importance is meant to be understood when one lives a humble life. It is a condition of anchoring oneself rather than an assessment of one’s skills.

Elin (March 3, 2019) contributed her experience and struggle with confidence, also shared her progress on her Blog “MY STRUGGLE WITH CONFIDENCE”. She explained her struggling days and how she tackled her problems. She did two radio interviews and three TV interviews. She filmed videos for RNIB Campaigns, also worked with Welsh online content creators. 

MY EXPERIENCE AND STRUGGLE WITH CONFIDENCE:

Here I came to write a blog about these three components. My own confidence took a little dip while writing this, yet I stuck with the process and provided myself some time to reflect on the thoughts I maintain. I always keep saying to myself that I've got to learn more and that I will eventually fail. I will face many failures and have to accept those failures because we learn from our mistakes. And those mistakes paint a vivid picture of ours. I was afraid to talk with strangers. Actually, I’m a shy little soul and that makes me become an introvert. I never express myself, and sometimes I find it difficult to share my opinion or raise my hand in class to answer a question. Sometimes I avoid saying something that might be wrong because I think it would be better to not say anything. I’ve struggled with it and experienced it. I’ve struggled with low confidence while talking to not only unknown people but also known people. Sometimes I feel so nervous that it makes me shiver while speaking. This has happened to me till now. I’ve struggled a lot and maybe a small part of me always will.

 Recently, I did a group debate, and in the middle of my speech, I blanked out. I was shivering and I don’t know why it happened. I think this happens when we have low confidence or have no trust in our self-assurance. But I decided it had to come to an end. So I focused on how to boost my trust level and self-confidence. I said to myself: No more behaving like an introvert! 

I tried to engage myself more in group tasks, attending competitions, and events. I attended ENTREPRENEUR'S Fest 3.0. I met new people there and got to know them. I learned more about their gestures and behavior. I noticed how they were so humble while talking and maintained eye contact. Their way of talking and their gestures made me think that I could do it!

We may lose all of life's opportunities if we are constantly afraid of coming across as conceited. But life will be full of many new adventures if we instead concentrate on living with sincerity and rising in the self-assurance of what we can provide and all that we can learn. Sometimes we think that the task looks easy or will be easy, but it is a little bit more difficult than we think. But we have to keep one thing in mind: Nothing can hold us down!

In conclusion, confidence comes naturally but sometimes it’s on us whether we face struggles or not. If you avoid the struggles, you never know how to tackle them. And if you combatively face it, you will experience it. None of us are perfect. We need to learn and move forward. We have to work a little harder. Sometimes it comes naturally with time and age. We all have issues with confidence in different ways, whether it’s because of the way we look, the way we’ve been treated in the past, or the way we feel in certain situations. If we can build our self-assurance or confidence, we can easily overcome our struggles. We need to learn from our struggles and by struggles we do experience both positive and negative vibes as our motivation.